Everything you should know before you buy a gay sex toy!

Gay Sex Toys Buyers Guide

 



Sex toys can be an important part of a healthy, happy sex life.

Whether for solo use or with a partner, toys are great ways to add to your sexual excitement and explore your fantasies. From the beginner to the carnal connoisseur, AdamMale has something for everyone.

Gay sex toys come in a variety of shapes and sizes, and perform an array of duties and functions. They can be as simple as a strand of anal beads, or as complex as a multi-function stimulator. When it comes to your pleasure and what you are looking for the choices for gay sex toys are endless. Do you want something that stimulates the prostate? Are you looking for a penis enhancer? Or do you want a toy for anal play? Choosing the right toy is an important decision. That's why AdamMale has put together a comprehensive guide to help you learn more about the different type of gay sex toys we offer so you can be confident, and knowledgeable, about your pleasure.

 

Anal Beads and Wands: Anal beads and wands are gay sex toys that are designed to stimulate the anus through penetration. Often, balls of the same size or ascending sizes are attached to a string or a more rigid shaft, and are inserted. Some even come with a vibration feature. Anal beads can be used while masturbating, or as foreplay to open up the anus for another toy or penis. Many men often find that removing the beads at the moment of ejaculation makes for a stronger climax. For more information, and to view our complete line of anal beads and wands, click here.

 

Butt Plugs: As with other insertable gay sex toys, butt plugs gently stretch open the anus and make it easier to penetrate with other toys, fingers or the penis. They are often mushroom shaped and small butt plugs are great for beginners in anal exploration. They can be used during solo session, or with a partner as part of foreplay. For more information, and to view our complete line of butt plugs, click here.

 

Penis Rings: Cock rings are versatile gay sex toys. The main purpose of a cock ring is as a penis enhancer, helping you to stay harder longer. These stretchy rings slip onto your erection and are placed at the base of the penis. They are made of jelly, rubber or silicone and there are even cock rings that will give you both pleasure with the help of a built in vibrator. For more information, and to view our complete line of cock rings, click here.

 

Dongs and dildos: Dildos and dongs are sex toys that can be used for anal penetration. These sex toys are made from a large selection of materials and are usually phallic-shaped. Unlike vibrators, dildos and dongs do not have a motorized component so you never have to worry about running low on battery power at a crucial moment! Couples can use dildos together or for solo play. For more information, and to view our complete line of dildos and dongs, click here.

 

Vibrators: Anal vibrators tend to be short and thin for easier anal penetration, while prostate vibrators also feature an enlarged tip to make it simpler for the user to find and stimulate the prostate. These battery-powered workhorses are a staple in the adventurous male's toy collection. For more information and to view our complete line of vibrators, click here.

 

Masturbators: Masturbators are hand-held toys meant to make male self-pleasuring more enjoyable. A very basic description of a male masturbator is a sleeve with two holes; one for the penis and one for cleaning. Perhaps the easiest male sex toy to use, simply slide your penis in and stroke until you orgasm, then clean. For more information, and to view our complete line of male masturbators, click here.

 

Prostate Stimulators: The prostate gland is a walnut shaped gland that produces a clear fluid that carries the sperm out of the body during ejaculation. Sometimes the gland is called the male g-spot or the "p-spot". Regardless of sexual orientation, a man can have the most intense orgasm he's ever had from having his prostate massaged with fingers or an anal sex toy. For more information, and to view our complete line of prostate stimulators, click here.

 

Penis Pumps: Penis pumps aid in temporarily increasing the size of a man's erection. Penis pumps are kind of the opposite of most other pumps you've ever encountered. Instead of adding air to inflate as you would a sports ball, penis pumps "inflate" the penis by removing air. This vacuum-like quality, in turn, causes blood to rush to the penis. Since erections depend on blood flow, this increased amount of blood and enlarges the penis. The benefits are more noticeable when it comes to length, but many users also report a gain of girth. For more information and to view our complete line of penis pumps, click here.

 

Using An Anal Toy For The First Time If you've never used an anal sex toy before you're in for a treat. Anal sex toys can open up a whole new world of pleasure, whether you are using it for solo exploration or sharing the experience with a partner. The main thing when using an anal sex toy for the first time is to just RELAX! Start off by taking a few deep breaths and getting in a comfortable position. Normally lying on your back with your legs spread or getting on your knees allows for easier penetration. You may want to massage your anus and start off with a finger at first, before moving on to a toy. It's also extremely important to use plenty of lube. Make sure you put lube on all sides of the toy, as well as your opening. Take a deep breath and then slowly and gently start inserting. Go at your own pace and take as little or as much as you like. Remember, YOU are in charge of your pleasure and need to do what feels good for you. Some great beginner sex toys include:

    The Assifier: Plug your pucker with just the right size and shape! This anal sex toy is perfectly designed for the 1st time anal explorer – no bumps, no vibrations, no whopping size, and no worries! This anal plug is soft, flexible, and small enough to please and tease your backdoor! For more information, click here.

   The Colt  Anal Trainer Kit: Never be without the perfect size butt plug again! These Colt Butt Plugs begin with a modest size girth of only 1 inch on the small one and grows to 2 inches in the large. Slowly build up your insertion tolerance with this 3 level kit or simply add variety to your backdoor pleasure regimen. For more information, click here.

   Flamenco Jelly Caribbean Vibe: This flexible vibe is soft and smooth with a flexible head just the right size for the anal explorer. For more information, click here.

    Colt Multi-Speed Power Bullet: The COLT Power Pack Bullet is both ergonomic and economic! Grab the EZ grip power pack in one hand and pop the bullet in your soon-to-be-happy hole. For more information, click here.

 

 

Types of Sex Toy Material

Gay sex toys come in all different shapes, sizes, and materials. Each is unique and has certain qualities that some prefer over the other. It's important to understand each material, its benefits and its drawbacks, so you can decide what's best for you. Sex toys are generally made from the following materials:

     Plastic Sex Toys: Plastic gay sex toys are popular due to the fact they are the most economical and tend to cost the least. Typically they don't have all the bells and whistles and are used for basic anal penetration. Plastic is rigid and most models are smooth, which allows for easy insertion, removal and cleaning.

     Latex Sex Toys: Latex gay sex toys tend to also be inexpensive, but have flexibility to them. They are firm enough for penetration, however because they tend to have more friction it's important to use plenty of lubrication. Many people also have latex allergies and should not use any sex toy made from this material.     

     Jelly Sex Toys: Jelly gay sex toys are extremely popular because they combine function and affordability. Jelly toys are colorful, flexible, and smooth and supple to the touch. While jelly is a pliable material, it is rigid enough for easy penetration. They tend to have more advanced features and functions.

     Cyberskin Sex Toys: Cyberskin gay sex toys offer the most realistic look and feel. They mimic the feel of human skin and warm to the touch. Cyberskin is often used in realistic toys that are molded from actual body parts and provide the most lifelike experience. Cyberskin tends to be more pricey, however many users feel the soft yet firmness of this quality material is worth it. This material does take a little extra work. Once cleaned, it is important to use talcum powder to retain the feel of your toy.

    Silicone Sex Toys: Silicone gay sex toys are hygienic, easy to clean, and are extremely durable. They can handle daily use and retain their form and functions. Silicone is soft, yet firm to the touch and makes penetration easy. Because they are of higher quality they tend to last longer than other materials. However, it is important to note that you should not use a silicone-based lubricant or store your silicone toys together as this could cause damage to the toy.

    Glass Sex Toys: Glass gay sex toys have soared in popularity. One reason is that they can either be heated or cooled to provide different sensations. Because they ARE made of glass there is no flexibility, so it is important to use plenty of lube. However, this rigidity makes insertion and removal easy. Glass is also one of the most hygienic and easiest materials to clean. You can throw them in the dishwasher or a pot of boiling water.


What Lube Should I Use With My Sex Toy? Lube is an essential partner to your sex toy. Not only does it ease penetration for a comfortable and pleasurable experience, it can actually increase your toy's longevity. However, if you use the wrong kind of lubricant, you and your gay sex toy will both be unhappy. That's why we're taking out the guesswork so you'll know what lube is safe to use with your favorite insertable friend. Water-based lubricant is the perfect accompaniment to any gay sex toy. It can safely be used with any sex toy materials, as well as condoms. Silicone-based lubricant is safe to use with almost all sex toys. Never use silicone based lubes with any toy that is actually made of silicone. Oil and Petroleum type lubes can damage certain sex toys and should never be used with any latex toys or condoms. These lubes tend to be better for finger play or masturbation. When using a lubricant with your gay sex toy, remember to always use a small coat of lube on the toy itself, as well as your anus. Silicone lubes tend to last longer than water-based ones, so it's important to reapply if necessary. Always remember to wipe your toy clean with warm, soapy water, preferably an antibacterial brand, or use a sex toy cleaner.

How Do I Care For My Toys? When you find your favorite gay sex toy you want it to last, and with proper care and maintenance it can. Before using your sex toy, carefully inspect it for any tears or defects. If it is an insertable toy, make sure you use a compatible lubricant. Cleaning is probably the single most important thing when it comes to care, so it's essential to do so immediately after each and every use. To clean your sex toy, use warm water and an antibacterial soap. Thoroughly wipe and rinse, making sure if your toy uses batteries to avoid getting that area wet. Another option is to use a sex toy cleaner. Rubbing alcohol can also be used to cleanse plastic sex toys. If your sex toy is made of Cyberskin, always make sure to use talcum powder after cleaning to maintain your toy's unique feel. Once you are done washing your toy, pat dry with a clean soft cloth. Then wrap it in a dry cloth and store it in a dry, cool place. If your toy is battery operated, remove the batteries before storing if you don't plan on using it in the following week. Batteries can corrode and ruin your toy, or your toy can accidentally turn on and not be ready when you are. It's also important to always use the right battery for your toy. Changing your batteries is simple and normally is achieved by removing the panel on the controller or by unscrewing the base. Once your gay sex toys are clean, dry and battery free it's time to store them. It's recommended that they be wrapped individually in either a lint free material such as linen, or a velvet storage bag. Many materials do not mix well with each other, and can actually end up destroying or damaging your toy. This is especially true with silicone. Never store a silicone toy with another silicone toy. The result will be a slow disintagration and you'll end up with a misshapen and unusable toy. With just a little bit of cleaning, maintenance and proper care, your favorite sex toys will be around for years to come.